Don’t let anger lead to a break up
Karen Salmansohn, of Oprah.com, recently wrote, “I can sum up in three “acts” the breakdowns and breakups of most relationships since the beginning of time:
Act 1: You hurt me.
Act 2: Because you hurt me, I now hurt you.
Act 3: Because you hurt me, I now hurt you and so you hurt me again and so I hurt you — and downward spiraling we shall go.”
Then she suggests 5 ways couples can avoid being jerks when fighting. Let’s see how these will work with a confrontational customer.
1. Pick the right time and the right place.
Find a place to talk openly, not self-consciously. A private office is ideal but anywhere you can face each other and make strong eye contact will work. In moving your angry customer out of the public eye, neither of you has to play for an audience, and you have demonstrated that you take his concerns seriously. Do the best you can – step outside or take him for coffee if necessary. [Read More]
A business mentor can guide you through the traffic snarl of starting a new business. Select a mentor carefully so you can depend on his depend on his wise advice and sensible counsel. Below are 8 points recommended by WikiHow.com that you may want to keep in mind when looking for an adviser.
1. Be careful sharing your business information. When you have a new business idea, be cautious. Don’t go around telling lots of people about it or your idea might be stolen. In selecting a mentor, be sure that this person is trustworthy and has no reason to undermine your attempts at starting out. More than this, be sure to choose someone who is positive, upbeat, and motivating. There is nothing more off-putting than someone whose negativity about your proposals! Ignore the naysayers, those who provide the figures of failed businesses; that’s negativity you can do without.
2. Find someone who is very experienced in business. The mentor must be good at running a business inside out, from the bottom to the top. Your mentor should have at least 10 years experience in the business field and have a track record that shines. Note how this person has overcome failures too; if they bounced back and did even better, this person is ideal! [Read More]